Have you been trying to manifest and make some magic happen in your life, but cannot seem to make it happen? Do you want to know what the problem might be? My Intuitive coaching experience tells me that your limiting beliefs might be the big aha obstacle that is getting in the way of your success with manifesting.
In my work with spiritual business owners, professionals and coaches, I often hear variations of the same complaint.
“I have too many responsibilities.”
“I don’t know where to start.”
“I can’t get everything done.”
“I don’t feel worthy.”
“I don’t, can’t or won’t …” The list can go on and on, so let’s look at a few of these complaints a little more closely.
“I have too many responsibilities”
Is that really true? Were you brought up in a strict home where chores came before everything else and by the time you were done with chores and homework there was no time for yourself? This taught you how to put yourself to the side, including your dreams. Or, maybe you like to give your time away more than you realize and it is such a habit that you are unaware of how much you neglect yourself and your dreams. Can you really afford to go off and help out a neighbour, spend all your extra time volunteering or driving your kids everywhere they need to go and ignore yourself?
What I am trying to explain is that there is an inner belief that is blocking you from organizing, managing and restructuring how you spend your time to fit in some constructive dream building or leisure “me” time. Either way your dreams are put on the back burner because you do not know how to give yourself that love and priority spot in your time that you need. This makes you destined to fail on the manifestations that are just for you.
You need to take time and put yourself in the schedule and evict this idea that “everyone else is more important than you”. Integrate the idea that you are special and your dreams mean something important.
“I will never have enough money”
Beliefs about “not having enough…” of anything usually means you are carrying an experience from the past. Maybe you grew up poor or in a household with a modest income. Maybe your parents had money but were not generous or maybe they blew it on drugs, alcohol or gambling. Whatever that past ghost is telling you, it is not supporting you in who and where you are today or where you want to be financially. Changing that belief will support who you are today and the goals you have for yourself and for your future.
If this is you, there is an urgency to take a deep dive look into your mindset and your beliefs around money and the ghosts of the past. Fearlessly dive into the abyss and find your way into financial faith. Most people need help with these types of intense belief shifts so it is wise to get a good transformational coach for that.
“But my limitations are real”
Of course they are silly! When you told yourself they are and sunk them into your subconscious, they became your reality. When clients come to see me and share these conditions in their minds during the initial conversation I know right away they are stuck in stories, not truths, but stories. I walk down the road of truth seeking with them with inquisitive questions to show them that what they are believing is not reality.
Truths are easy to identify and take action to change if willing, but limiting beliefs that are based in fear or stories from the past can grip us and not serve us to be all that we are meant to be. Maybe you were taught and told so often that; “you are bad at math, you are so disorganized, you are lazy, you are not capable or even lovable, you are this and you are that…”. We believe the things we hear about ourselves at young ages and those turn into our self-fulfilling prophecies because we then make them unfold as we go about our lives.
Knowing that your beliefs can be either be a source of strength or weakness is life changing. You absolutely need to know what you are buying into in order to have the final say on what patterns you agree to and that you allow to define your life.
This is your time to make a commitment to do what it takes, say YES to you, to truth, to dreams to your heart’s desires, to making YOU a priority. You owe it to yourself to reshape those limiting beliefs and begin the journey of joy, abundance, true happiness and prosperity. Using the power of replacing limiting beliefs with supporting ones will help you rise into the super star of your own life. Start now with identifying the bad ones and replacing them with good ones so you can get what you want out of life.
“I am able.”
“I am there for myself.”
“I will succeed.”
“I am lovable.”
“I am smart.”
“I am a magnet for happiness.”